Dating for married people. It is not as crazy as it might sound. Actually, there are many reasons why people who are married look to have an affair.
It is not just because the person no longer feels loved, although that can happen. In many cases, there is plenty of love between the partners. But, for one reason or another, the physical side of the relationship is not satisfying.
Sometimes it is just a case of not getting enough excitement any more. Many times, once a couple is married, they get too caught up in their day-to-day lives. The focus is on work and the home rather than on the relationship. This sometimes bothers one member of the couple while it is no problem for the other.
In other cases, either the wife or husband may no longer be interested in sex. This can be psychological or there may be physical reasons why it is impossible or no longer pleasurable. This can leave the other member of the couple without the benefit of an important part of marriage.
The thing is, everything else about the relationship might be perfect. They both might be happy with the lives they have created together. In these situations, it is not a divorce that is wanted. The couple wants to stay together. But what about the sexual satisfaction that is missing?
This is the time when a person might seek out an affair. Not to leave his or her spouse. Not to breakup the marriage. Simply to get something that is missing that cannot be gotten within the relationship.
There are people who cheat on their spouses because they want to get caught. Or because they want to get divorced. But in this case, you do not want anyone to find out. You do not want to hurt your spouse; you just want to get the benefit of what is missing.
Therefore, it is really important that you have an affair with someone who will be discreet. Preferably, someone who is in the same position as you are. Someone who wants some physical companionship without changing anything about his or her home life.
So how do you find that person? It is tricky to have an affair with someone you already know. The risk is too great that there will end up being strings attached. Or that you will end up getting caught one way or another.
There are, however, dating services just for situations like this. In these services that specialize in dating for married people, you can find other people who have committed relationships but, for one reason or another, are looking for an affair.
These people are looking for the same thing you are. They want an affair that is discreet and that has no strings attached.